Sometimes our words or our actions can be misunderstood depending on many factors. Sometimes how something is received depends on the tone it was delivered in. Sometimes it depends on whether the person we are speaking to is engaged and actually paying attention. There can be many times that the intent of our heart is not understood. We could have pure intentions but allow our hurt to cloud the words of our mouth so instead of coming out of our mouth sounding hurt, the words actually sound angry. Sometimes hurt disguises itself as anger, but the person receiving the words doesn't know that and hurt feelings can ensue.
I have always hoped and prayed that the people I come in contact with would give me the benefit of the doubt and see my heart. I try to do the same for them. I learned this from my Nanny. Nanny Stephens was always giving people the benefit of the doubt, making excuses for them. If someone was speeding, she'd say they must be in a hurry to get home. If someone was cranky, she'd say they were overtired. If someone was using bad language, she'd say 'oh the poor thing, wasn't brought up'. She always had an excuse for everyone why they didn't act the way they should. I think that's a good policy and would solve a world of trouble.
Just imagine if those you come in contact with on an every day basis were given the benefit of the doubt. Think of the road rage that would stop. Think of the gestures and sarcasm that could be avoided. We would live in a more genteel world. Life would be less stressful.
The Word of God tells us in Hebrews
I think you represent this very well. Always ready with a kind heart and the love of Christ. Oh, if we could all be slow to react and quick to see through the eyes of Christ. A great place to start work on me. :)
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